There’s a Hole in My Life

I woke up one morning to find a hole in my life.  Couldn’t see it. Couldn’t stick my hand in it.  Just this gnawing awareness that something was missing in me. Then there were all the ways I tried to cover-up this hole in my life: from exercise to therapy.  Why I even tried avoidance,Continue reading “There’s a Hole in My Life”

Having Clarity in Times of Confusion; Part 2

The hardest thing to see when we are in a place of struggle – job loss, illness, financial collapse, separation – is that this process called life is forever evolving.  We often become confused because our perspective is clouded by the emotions that surge during our struggle.  We become myopic and stuck. “Everything is temporary”Continue reading “Having Clarity in Times of Confusion; Part 2”

Be Yourself!

Just don’t let anyone else see you There are a lot of mixed messages we receive today, but one in particular really stands out for me: “Be yourself!” or  it’s derivative “know thyself!” Have you found yourself misunderstood, or misrepresented?  A good intention, that somehow went bad?  Here’s an old favorite – “good boys orContinue reading “Be Yourself!”